What do you mean by success in life?

What do you mean by success in life? For example, for me it consists of several components that have gone for many years. And now I realize that what was built day after day, month after month, finally began to bear fruit. What was created so painstakingly, began to give me true satisfaction and joy. What you've had to abandon many conventional and fashionable styles, has become truly valuable for me and for my family.

For me success in life, it's:

First of all,this is inner peace.The balance of the internal and external.

 

What do you mean by success in life?

Inner peace comes when you cease to participate in the General race. Most often it is a race for these or other popular and trendy material goods.

Quite often when a person doesn't have this or that fancy stuff, which he could show off to others, and his internal tension.

He doesn't think about how much time and effort will be spent on making money only for the thing to buy. He throws all the forces to "comply", "the Joneses, or even better – cooler washi Petechkin". He does not think and does not examine the aspect of what the same money can be invested in investments that will give him financial freedom and independence from the circumstances in the training, which will bring professional growth and increase financial welfare.

Sometimes people all their effort throws to create the veneer, maintaining a contrived image of the "rich and successful". But if you look deeper, quite often such people are mired in the credits, in fear to be left without income. Because the reduction in income will directly impact on the reduction of the number of fashionable and expensive toys, thanks to which one finds an ersatz confidence.

Sometimes it's pretty sad watching the girls in the trendy branded clothes, when they are in front of each other begin to list the names of the famous, things, and so awkwardly sit on them. And behind all this branduoliu and aching pity for these girls, and I want to ask: "Honey, where in all this are you? What's your name is what? What do you do? What do you love? What was your dream in childhood? What gives you strength and real, true happiness? Like in childhood when you would run barefoot on the floor, and my grandmother with great love scolded you because you didn't have your shoes on. Or when you're with friends in the evenings talked about first love, about how you grow and what will be happy? What have you created? What good have you done in this world?".

Disclaimer of brendovoj, fashionableness and popularity releases a huge potential, gives us strength and energy. And through this power we can create, to grow and to do what makes us truly happy and peaceful.

If you do not need a car, we must have the courage to admit it and abandon it, despite the fact that now almost the first thing to ask is, "what's your car?". You have no car because you don't want it. And not just not needed, you realize how many problems will appear with its acquisition.

If you like Finland, does not appear complex on the fact that you don't want to fly to popular resort, then to be able to someone brag about it, but losing some kind of internal integrity and self-respect. You continue to fly to those places that give you strength, a sense of peace and happiness. You understand that it is not the fear of something new, and you just so want.

You don't like fashion watches or fashion clothing from so-and-so? You're not supposed to throw a lot of money on a piece of iron or a piece of cloth, which in a few years just rot or come disabled. And you have the audacity to abandon what makes you happy. And most importantly to understand that actually quite often trendy, hyped things away from the beauty and harmony. And sometimes very much spoil and make people ugly.

Each person has their own "fad", the race which makes it miserable takes away the last strength and energy. About how much inner peace here when all thoughts are busy "Now I'll change the car to a more new and fashionable, will go to friends to brag. Let them see and understand what I "cool"" And, as a rule, all these efforts have not been met. Real friends don't care what car you use. But if not all the same, then why these "friends"? And why try to bend in front of them, and like to meet someone unknown to accepted standards?

Second is the study of any negative or disturbing in life or in interaction with others traits and negative habits.

What do you mean by success in life?

With this item, I had a long time to convince myself. Tell me, who so much want to change yourself and your habits? In fact, many of us consider ourselves perfect, and the fact that there are any misunderstandings with others, we believe either "misunderstanding" or accuse in those with whom we fail to build relationships. In this paragraph I exclude people with any psychological disorders, with over-developed brutality, and similar types. It is clear that with such to build relationships at our own peril. At this point, I'm talking about ordinary people that we face day in and day out.

And if at some point we realize that practically remained in "splendid isolation", or what the people around us, strive as little as possible to communicate with us, and when we come into a company where people have fun talking, but after our arrival there is silence and a kind of tension, it's time to think, not in us if themselves is it?

At the time I began to change myself and my attitude to the world. Start with family, changed her relationship to her husband, worked for negative parent program, and our family life began to bring us joy and happiness.

After I spent a few parent programs that made my husband unhappy family life, I got into habits that prevented me to achieve success in one area or another. One of the basic habits which I worked and which thoroughly spoiled my life and the people around me, it was a habit of constantly at all offended.

I'm giving myself in my life such great joy, as the ability to forgive and not be offended by people. I agree, it requires a Herculean effort, a lot of time to capital propriate all those whom we have offended since childhood. But, in fact, it still will take much less time than the rest of your life.

Third, this periodic development of new skills or improving those that already exist.

 

What do you mean by success in life?

On the one hand, this item is kind of understandable. But on the other hand, if you look at those who are a little over 30, you will realize that people cease to learn anything new, cease to strive to improve their professional level. I'm not talking about a single case, when a person enters into a structure in which in voluntary-compulsory to attend training. I'm talking about the majority of people.

How long have you learned something new? Learned to work in Adobe Premiere?

Not able to speak to an audience, and recently have dared and have taken courses in public speaking?

Learn to type "blind"?

Learned Photoshop?

Learned to dance the tango and the waltz?

Increased professional skills by completing a series of workshops and seminars?

When we periodically develop something new or improve yourself in your profession, which we like, of course, we have become increasingly successful and popular.